Word for 2014

So what was your word to describe the year. What was your 2014 in one word?

What were you?

What thing happened to define the year?

What did you do that made it a special year?

Any purchases that were memorable?

Any relationships change?

Job change? House move?

So all these things have been churning round my head these last few days and I am trying to summarize my year in one word. 

I think I will go for "brave"

Brave because I spoke my mind more. Brave because I told the (often brutal) truth more. 
Brave because I asserted myself more. 
Brave because I took some risks at work more and tried different techniques. 
Brave because I allowed myself to be confident. 

Yes brave it is. It could be assertive, honest or courageous. But it's brave. 

What's yours?


Addicted

By some accounts, the average professional spends as many as 13 hours checking e-mail each week — almost twice the time time we spend reading. Or relaxing. Or socializing, even.

I think I fall into that category. In fact I may spend even more time than that!

It was only a few days ago, I confessed to my husband that over the past few weeks, I have become addicted to my smart phone. I am not playing candy crush or minecraft, I am organizing things, checking flights, texting friends, ordering a book on amazon and clearly reading and replying to work emails. As far as I can see being relatively efficient and productive. Yet................I can't put the thing down for more than an hour.

I read recently about a two-week experiment, where the researchers found that checking e-mail less at work makes people feel less stressed … and that feeling less-stressed correlates with a whole lot of other good things, including productivity, sleep quality — even the feeling that life has meaning.

To come to these conclusions, the researchers put together a pretty simple experiment. For one week, they asked a group of 124 e-mail-users to keep their inboxes open the whole workday and check them as often as they could. Then, for the second week, they told their subjects to keep their inboxes closed, turn off e-mail notifications on their phones, and only check e-mail three times during their work hours. During both weeks, the researchers sent participants daily questionnaires about things like how much work they got done, how they slept, and how stressed or nervous they felt.

Overwhelmingly, people answered the same way: When they checked their e-mail all the time, they felt stressed. And when they only checked it three times a day, their stress levels decreased.

Mmmmmm do I feel a new years resolution in the making?

Check email less. Put the phone down for multiple hours at a time.

Am I really addicted or just a heavy user?

Am I just productive and exaggerating the impact?

Anyone else in this quandry?


Coincidence - I think not

There is no such thing as a coincidence.

Someone told me this recently and was so passionate about the statement that it really stuck with me. They gave examples of seeming coincidences and explanations that suggested that they were not. The more I listened the more I started to get what they were saying.

I threw in examples of things that I felt were complete coinincidences and they would argue that the two things were connected. It was defendable.

It was funny to rethink my belief and I began to buy it.

Since then, I have increasingly started to believe that there are indeed no coincidences. If it feels like it is, then the dots just haven’t been connected.

Take yesterday for example, I was looking at my night desk and realised all three objects on the surface, where given to me by the same friend. I was so taken aback by this observation that I took a photo and sent it over, saying "Look at this, thinking of you!".

The message I got back was, "I am not suprised, that's because its my birthday!! How weird is that??? I really did not know that today was his birthday. Or did I somehow?

Did I somewhere have that piece of information in my brain database and when I saw the items, my inner brain waves made the link? Or was it really a coincidence?

Does this kind of thing happen to you?

So is a seeming coincidence, just a lack of connecting the dots?

Are there at times, paths that cross, always for reasons that are much more important than we think?

Basically do we call something a coincidence, just because we don't understand it?

Mmmmmmmmm thats my pondering for the day.

Thoughts anyone?