The one I am reading right now, is about body language, and how FBI agents gain insights, into what a person is really saying or hiding, through their movements.
It’s a fun book and definitely got some good tips in there.
The bit that surprised me most is about feet. Apparently the truth lies in our feet. If
they point to the door and not at the person we are talking to, this is not a
good sign. It means we want to flee from the conversation.
What’s interesting about body language is that it really is
out of our control. It is so automatic and sub conscious, that actively
controlling it would be stressful and need a lot of practice.
Another insight on feet was about their whereabouts. If your
conversation is comfortable and not intrusive, the other persons feet will be
closer to you, however the more stressful the conversation, the more they are
likely to withdraw under a chair, away from the other person.
So as of now, don’t be offended, if I start staring at your feet whilst asking you uncomfortable questions, I am just checking out these theories.
And as for you, watch what your feet do today. It's scarily true.
And as for you, watch what your feet do today. It's scarily true.
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