10 things that make me happy - 7 & 8

I thought this was going to get harder, however today the ideas came flooding in.

Memories of the things that make me happy keep popping into my head for example, receiving a parcel in the post, lying in bed on a Saturday morning doing nothing, finishing making something like a cake or a even a piece of work. However I am trying not to capture the fleeting momentary happiness but search for deeper ones, possible ones that sustain the feeling, the sensation of happiness. That said one of todays is a little shallow! Oh well.

So here is where I ended up.

7. A great conversation with a friend. In teen years, we called them DMC's - deep and meaningful conversations - and I guess that is the sentiment I am after. I love a good ole chat about things that matter. Best is a conversation where you help each other, feel comfortable to ask pertinent and provacative questions, to further the thinking and the ideas. I can remember many of them. These conversations are good for the soul. You can't plan these chats, as many things need to be at play, mood, environment and openness, and that for two people, but when things come together, these moments are beautiful. They are memorable. Best of all they are moments that can make a difference in your life.

8. Shopping and Looking good. Yes this one is superficial and in no way deep, but its honest. I love buying something that makes me feel special. Whether its a pair of sparkly high heeled shoes (yes my latest purchase) or a nice dress, if its bought with care and deliberation, I love these moments. Its not only the thrill of the purchase, I am also talking about the enjoyment of wearing the articles. I love looking in the mirror and admiring the new things, looking at my reflection and thinking yes that was the look I was after. There is something about how these new beautiful things make you feel. They may make you look prettier on the outside, but what I really like about them is that they give you confidence, they make you walk taller, hold your shoulders back more and overall make you feel great. So yes I gain happiness from new shoes and other such lovely items, especially when they were bought with someone who had fun with you on a happy day outing. 

Last ones tomorrow, are you keeping up?